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Visualisation: The Reason You’re Not Succeeding

19/8/2015

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How often do you think about how you're going to live life in your 60s? Here are alternative outcomes.

Living Off The Kiddies

Some will reach the age of 60 without a single saving. You will depend on your kids for money, for food and perhaps even need them to house you somehow – if they are willing. For many this will not happen because life has been unkind to you, it will be the result of a series of bad choices such as having more children than you can afford to support and not saving enough.

Be in no doubt that if you find yourself in this situation you will be a burden to your children. In the ideal world children don’t want to have to look after their parents financially and if they just earn enough to support their family will resent having to look after you because you didn’t plan for old age.

Could this be you?

POSSIBLE SCENARIOS

Oh, This Isn't My House?

Some will reach retirement age and realise that the bank or the company they work for owns “their” house and “their” car. It’s easy to forget such things when you are enjoying life but at this point you will be forced to either live off your children or invest your savings in a business.

If you’re lucky you’ll find jobs in retirement or positions on boards of directors that provide an income whilst you make up for lost time on the investment front.

Living Off The Rentals

Some will reach the age of 60 with a tidy property portfolio. You will own the house you live in outright and you will have at least two rental properties.

Your rental properties will produce enough money to cover all necessities, bills and wants such as holidays. When your children come to visit you, they will come with pride. Pride that they have forward-thinking parents that had the wisdom to cover their own retirement. You will have no unnecessary worries and will be safe in the knowledge that you never have to go to bed hungry or cold.

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The Art of Visualisation

Visualising is like fantasising. You visualise a specific event in the future in very specific and detailed terms and think about how much you will enjoy it. Scientists have confirmed that visualising can lead to the achievement of real results.

In a well-known study on creative visualisation in sports, Russian scientists compared three groups of Olympic athletes:
  • Group 1 received 100% physical training;
  • Group 2 received 75% physical training with 25% mental training;
  • Group 3 received 50% mental training with 50% physical training;

Group 3 had the best performance results. This indicates that some types of mental training, such as consciously invoking specific subjective states, can have significant measurable effects on biological performance.

Further to this, some celebrities have argued that they have achieved certain results in their life by visualising them first. These include Oprah, Will Smith and Jim Carrey.

Visualising helps you to focus on a goal. If you can find just ten minutes a day to meditate and visualise the things you want to achieve you will increase your chances of achieving them.

Most people don't think too far beyond the next couple of years, if that. Those that do are at an advantage. Of course you shouldn't live so far in the future that you cannotenjoy the present. That said, thinking about and planning for the future is enjoyable in itself –just do it!

"Ordinary people believe only in the possible. Extraordinary people visualize not what is possible or probable, but rather what is impossible. And by visualizing the impossible, they begin to see it as possible." Cherie Carter-Scott

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6 Comments
Sharon Daniels
19/8/2015 03:22:26 pm

Ms. Katsonga,

Everything is not about money. Your mother had you and you should be grateful to take care of her. Without her (rich or poor), there would be no you.

May God be with us always,

Sharon Daniels ([email protected])

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Heather KW
19/8/2015 03:41:49 pm

I think you may have missed the point of this blog.

It's about how I would feel if my kids had to look after me whether they are willing to or not. You shouldn't make plans based on the hope that your kids will take care of you in old age.

My children had no choice in being created so I don't expect them to be "grateful that I had them". My son and any children to come owe me nothing, the gratitude is all mine.

This particular blog is all about money and wealth creation.

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Sharon Daniels
19/8/2015 05:05:37 pm

Gratefulness should always be reciprocated.

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Stephanie
23/8/2015 05:12:53 pm

Hi Heather - i have to say i absolutely love ur posts - i read all of them religiously. Thank you for putting out such informative posts and also for taking the time to answer my question about the PT.

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Sindy
23/8/2015 07:36:50 pm

Thanks Heather for your thoughts that you share with us. They are very helpful and quite thought provoking in the right direction. I plan to do your online course one of these days

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Roann
5/9/2015 12:08:57 am

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